<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post4921206711599281593..comments</id><updated>2008-01-15T08:21:10.592-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Life in Motion: Why?</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/feeds/4921206711599281593/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html'/><author><name>Serenity Everton</name><email>asparkle2@yahoo.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>14</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-3205343323923425511</id><published>2008-01-15T08:21:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-01-15T08:21:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Loved the posts! So eloquent. Do you sometimes try...</title><content type='html'>Loved the posts! So eloquent. Do you sometimes try to use vaginal lubrication as lube for anal sex? You know, put it there first, then there? That I think, if you didn't mind it, could eliminate the lube-up step.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/3205343323923425511'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/3205343323923425511'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html?showComment=1200414060000#c3205343323923425511' title=''/><author><name>Severine</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-4921206711599281593' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/posts/default/4921206711599281593' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-3423269781143459082</id><published>2008-01-05T19:37:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-01-05T19:37:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Dear friends,Thank you so much for your encouragem...</title><content type='html'>Dear friends,&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Thank you so much for your encouragement and support. It wasn't the easiest thing in the world to write, or post, especially as I got to the end. So I really appreciate all of your generous comments.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;sparkle</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/3423269781143459082'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/3423269781143459082'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html?showComment=1199590620000#c3423269781143459082' title=''/><author><name>sparkle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12269108286146880037</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01137497904072797986'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-4921206711599281593' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/posts/default/4921206711599281593' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-4589095239325727423</id><published>2008-01-05T17:56:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-01-05T17:56:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Thank you for this post it is good to know that ot...</title><content type='html'>Thank you for this post it is good to know that other enjoy this aspect of love making.  For 20 years of our marriage I would not even consider playing in this way.  After I came out at a spanko it is a big part of our world.  I am looking forward to reading the stories you mentioned.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Hugs,&lt;BR/&gt;PK</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/4589095239325727423'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/4589095239325727423'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html?showComment=1199584560000#c4589095239325727423' title=''/><author><name>New Beginnings</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-4921206711599281593' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/posts/default/4921206711599281593' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-7842495734339520074</id><published>2008-01-05T10:29:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-01-05T10:29:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Dear one,That was wonderful.  Hot and sexy and swe...</title><content type='html'>Dear one,&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;That was wonderful.  Hot and sexy and sweet and tender and beautiful.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Brava!&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Iris</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/7842495734339520074'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/7842495734339520074'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html?showComment=1199557740000#c7842495734339520074' title=''/><author><name>Iris</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13568684757825104657</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-4921206711599281593' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/posts/default/4921206711599281593' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-7151044297803221571</id><published>2008-01-04T14:04:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-01-04T14:04:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Sparkle, an excellent and honest post. Nothing wro...</title><content type='html'>Sparkle, an excellent and honest post. Nothing wrong with anal play as long as both adults consent, I suspect that a lot more do it than are willing to admit to it.&lt;BR/&gt;I read all the stories and enjoyed them, thanks, I'll keep an eye out for the authors.&lt;BR/&gt;I think both you and Chris are brave to have posted this, thank you.&lt;BR/&gt;Hugs,&lt;BR/&gt;Paul.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/7151044297803221571'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/7151044297803221571'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html?showComment=1199484240000#c7151044297803221571' title=''/><author><name>Paul</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03790580459962602757</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-4921206711599281593' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/posts/default/4921206711599281593' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-5835743440580188081</id><published>2008-01-04T10:05:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-01-04T10:05:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Wow, Sparkle.  You're brave.  I'm not nearly to th...</title><content type='html'>Wow, Sparkle.  You're brave.  I'm not nearly to the point where I can write about things like this.  Hell, I haven't even been able to say the word "spank" out loud in front of Red yet.  I still refer to it as the "s-word."&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Thank you for sharing it though.  I love how much your love for Chris and his love for you comes through in your blogs.  Whatever problems reality throws your way, it is clear that you have a strong, loving relationship.  &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Rose</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/5835743440580188081'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/5835743440580188081'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html?showComment=1199469900000#c5835743440580188081' title=''/><author><name>Rose</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14729019275679534785</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-4921206711599281593' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/posts/default/4921206711599281593' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-3908227923094562084</id><published>2008-01-04T07:06:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-01-04T07:06:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>And so you have now provided for us some of that w...</title><content type='html'>And so you have now provided for us some of that which you also love to read so much...thank you!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/3908227923094562084'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/3908227923094562084'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html?showComment=1199459160000#c3908227923094562084' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-4921206711599281593' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/posts/default/4921206711599281593' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-6655345112127119494</id><published>2008-01-03T22:16:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-01-03T22:16:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>back on second read.hot damn.hot. hot, hot.and som...</title><content type='html'>back on second read.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;hot damn.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;hot. hot, hot.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;and somehow, thanks too for the permission, as it wewe, to continue to explore topics on my own blog that frankly embarrass me and yet, horror of horrors, turn me on insatiably.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;love,&lt;BR/&gt;raven</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/6655345112127119494'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/6655345112127119494'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html?showComment=1199427360000#c6655345112127119494' title=''/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07512582421805739144</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-4921206711599281593' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/posts/default/4921206711599281593' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-6210334888708652863</id><published>2008-01-03T20:34:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-01-03T20:34:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Fatasy, reading, imagination, memories... all of t...</title><content type='html'>Fatasy, reading, imagination, memories... all of them stimulate desire... &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Anal play is wonderful, and what you and Chris have together is great. &lt;BR/&gt;But in the physiological interest of not tearing the delicate inner lining of your rectum, I'd ALWAYS use lubricant - both on him and in your bottom and on the outer rim of your anus. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;You can pretend he's not - and do it anyway, part of the game.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Hmmm, a thought. &lt;BR/&gt;There is a vaginal suppository used to lubricate a woman's vagina for 24 hours that you can get in the drugstore. &lt;BR/&gt;Perhaps you could  put one or two of them inside your bottom an hour before you have anal sex...&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Anal sex done right is so delicious :)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/6210334888708652863'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/6210334888708652863'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html?showComment=1199421240000#c6210334888708652863' title=''/><author><name>Loving Annie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02702046097986873803</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-4921206711599281593' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/posts/default/4921206711599281593' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-6481506391276374667</id><published>2008-01-03T17:41:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-01-03T17:41:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>sparkle...sweetie...wow.  I think I now owe you th...</title><content type='html'>sparkle...sweetie...&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;wow.  &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I think I now owe you thanks for posting this in such wonderful warm detail, for mentioning the name of one of my very favorite online authors (whose name I was trying to remember and couldn't the other day).  &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;And I think I'll also say thanks to your beloved Chris for making you post this.  &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;And then I'll wish I had a little bit of time to properly enjoy it... ;-) &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Raven</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/6481506391276374667'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/6481506391276374667'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html?showComment=1199410860000#c6481506391276374667' title=''/><author><name>Raven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07512582421805739144</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-4921206711599281593' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/posts/default/4921206711599281593' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-8508426451858536553</id><published>2008-01-03T15:29:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-01-03T15:29:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Sparkle, I thought as much, but figured it was bet...</title><content type='html'>Sparkle, I thought as much, but figured it was better to play it safe :-)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/8508426451858536553'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/8508426451858536553'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html?showComment=1199402940000#c8508426451858536553' title=''/><author><name>Student Discipline</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02429241336226676827</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-4921206711599281593' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/posts/default/4921206711599281593' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-6879369600860841819</id><published>2008-01-03T15:08:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-01-03T15:08:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Student Discipline, I do find it embarrassing in a...</title><content type='html'>Student Discipline, I do find it embarrassing in a sense to talk about anal play (just typing it makes me shiver and squirm) as oppposed to simply spanking, but it's not distressing. If it was truly upsetting or disturbing or unwelcome, I would have objected to Chris about putting it up here on my blog at all, you know. :) Trust me when I say that I know and expect people I don't know in the face-to-face context will read it. But also know that it's probably going to be even more of a blushing thing if any one I DO know asks me about face-to-face!!!&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;sparkle</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/6879369600860841819'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/6879369600860841819'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html?showComment=1199401680000#c6879369600860841819' title=''/><author><name>sparkle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12269108286146880037</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01137497904072797986'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-4921206711599281593' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/posts/default/4921206711599281593' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-7924772056045504492</id><published>2008-01-03T15:00:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-01-03T15:00:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Ahh, Sparkle, the stories you linked to pushed lot...</title><content type='html'>Ahh, Sparkle, the stories you linked to pushed lots of my buttons as well and I hadn't known about any of them before so thank you so very much for the links! They're wonderful and going in That Folder on my hard drive right now.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;On the other hand I'm now &lt;I&gt;very&lt;/I&gt; revved up but have to wait until tomorrow evening. Much less thanks for that...!&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I am also completely different on the outside from what I'm like in the privacy of my own bedroom with the man I love and trust. I really related to that part of your post. My own housemates, one of whom is an ex, hadn't realised how much of myself I've given to M until it happened to be relevant to a conversation and I decided to tell them (we're very good friends). Housemate #1's comment was something along the lines of "all this time we've been trying to find someone to talk to about this kind of stuff, and you were right here under our noses!"&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;But yeah, if a complete strange off the street were to know that about me, well I'm not sure exactly how I'd react but I do know it would be unhappily.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Although I guess I'm pretty much a stranger as well, to be leaving a comment here, if it's distressing to you then I'm very sorry...</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/7924772056045504492'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/7924772056045504492'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html?showComment=1199401200000#c7924772056045504492' title=''/><author><name>Student Discipline</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02429241336226676827</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-4921206711599281593' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/posts/default/4921206711599281593' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-1639399813133646299</id><published>2008-01-03T14:18:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-01-03T14:18:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Hi sparkle,I can relate to your post a lot as I al...</title><content type='html'>Hi sparkle,&lt;BR/&gt;I can relate to your post a lot as I also love to read similar types of stories.  Thanks for the links.  I plan to check them out.  I have "getting into trouble" already ready to read.  Looks like a good one.  :)&lt;BR/&gt;Hope your having a good new year!&lt;BR/&gt;BIG HUGS&lt;BR/&gt;padme amidala</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/1639399813133646299'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/4921206711599281593/comments/default/1639399813133646299'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html?showComment=1199398680000#c1639399813133646299' title=''/><author><name>padme amidala</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00612172713211949107</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://asparkle2.blogspot.com/2008/01/why.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862895.post-4921206711599281593' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8862895/posts/default/4921206711599281593' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>